Lucy S. Pake

June 2, 1948 - October 10, 2019
Lucy S. Pake

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On Thursday, October 10, 2019, Lucy Pake passed peacefully, surrounded by her loving husband, adored children and cherished grandchildren. Lucy always had such a loving spirit and an unending energy that her family thought could never end. Though her friends and family wished her to stay, Death called her home. Lucy’s favorite poet Emily Dickinson, who she lovingly coined “Cousin” Emily, penned, “Because I could not stop for Death, he kindly stopped for me.”
Lucy was born on June 2, 1948 to Junius and Gladys Scoggin of Bassett, Virginia. She was the apple of her daddy’s eye, and her mother was so proud of the little girl “she had all by herself.” After leaving home to attend East Carolina University, she caught the eye of Chris Pake in June of 1967, who became her husband in August. They began their life together as they studied to become teachers, and held various jobs to reach their goals. Lucy lovingly recounted a story of listening to Chris on the radio and calling in with a fake accent to request her favorite tunes. Lucy’s sarcastic wit, sharp intellect and fun-loving spirit made her an excellent teacher. She was loved by students and staff at ECU and Campbell University over her career. She spread her joy for the English language and literature among the young people she touched each year.
A large family was Lucy’s biggest dream, and she was blessed with four children. The Pake family home was full of smiles and laughter as the neighborhood children would flock to the busy house to be a part of the fun. The children and their friends have many fun memories as they enjoyed time with “Big Chris” and “Lucy Love.” As a testament to her example and passion for life, all four of her children have chosen careers in education or coaching. She is survived by her daughter, Leighann, and her husband, Anthony; her daughter, Daryn, and her husband, Tim; her son, Scott, and his wife, Emily; and her son, Spencer, and his wife, Shannon.
Though she was an awesome mom, she was an even prouder grandmother. She adored her ten grandchildren and was happy to pull out pictures to show anyone who would look. She loved to cheer at sporting events, and attended her fair share of dance recitals. Her grandchildren are Savannah, Tristan, Meghan, Cayden, Trey, Elli, Morgan, Anna Brey, Henley, and Hayley.
Lucy was a loving wife, caring mother and doting grandmother, but she still had room in her heart for her fur babies. She loved her dogs and cats, and they were more than pets—they were FAMILY!
Her hobbies included reading, completing crossword puzzles, cross-stitching, and sun-bathing. It was not unusual to find her in the sun on a cool March day, as long as the sun was shining bright. She loved the sand beneath her toes, the river gently rocking her boat, and the peaceful quiet of her backyard pool.
Lucy’s family will continue to move forward—one foot in front of the other. There may be a few stumbles back, but their love and faith will keep them going. Memories of Lucy belting her favorite songs, “Prop Me Up Beside the Jukebox,” or “John Deere Green” will always bring a smile. Lucy will be remembered for her loving, free spirit. The words to Jimmy Buffett’s “A Pirate Looks at 40” spoke to her soul, and will bring comfort to her loved ones.

Mother, Mother Ocean, I have heard you call
Wanted to sail upon your waters since I was three feet tall
You’ve seen it all, you’ve seen it all.
Watched the men who rode you switch from sails to steam
And in your belly you hold the treasures few have ever seen
Most of them dream, most of them dream.

Lucy did so much more than dream. She lived!
The family will receive friends and family at the family home in Washington and at the Old Ford Church of Christ Family Life Center from 6:30 to 8:00 PM on Monday, October 14.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Humane Society of Beaufort County at (252)946-1591 or the Beaufort County Animal Shelter at (252)946-4517.
You may share a memory with the family by visiting www.josephpaulfdl.com.
Joseph B. Paul, Jr. Funeral Director Licensee of Washington is serving the Pake family.


Visiting Hours

Old Ford Church of Christ Life Center - Directions
6040 US Hwy 17 N, Washington, NC 27889
  • Monday, October 14, 2019
  • 6:30 PM - 8:00 PM

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  • October 13, 2019
    Valerie Whirhead says:
    So sorry for your loss. Mrs. Pake taught me English at ECU and she was always so kind and helpful. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

  • October 26, 2019
    Teresa & Danny Smith says:
    We are so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful lady. She was so dedicated to her family,, know your hearts are hurting. Thoughts and prayers for all. God bless.

  • October 15, 2019
    Carol Hartman says:
    Chris and family,
    I am so sorry to hear of Lucy's passing. I am keeping you and all the family in my prayers; I so enjoyed getting to know her as her mail carrier for many years, and I know how much she loved her family and how proud she was of her children and grandchildren. I also know how much she cared for her dogs she rescued along the way. I know she will be dearly missed. Sincerely, Carol Hartman

  • October 14, 2019
    Jeff and Pam Mault says:
    We are so sorry for your loss. Please remember that many are praying for you during this difficult time.

  • October 14, 2019
    Sheila Turner says:
    We went to high school with Lucy Anne..and remember her sharp wit! Happy times... sorry for your loss. Larry & Sheila Turner

  • October 14, 2019
    Jennifer Beach says:
    We are so sorry for your loss. Mrs. Lucy will be greatly missed but will forevermore live in your hearts. Praying for peace and comfort during this difficult time. The Beach Family

  • October 13, 2019
    Barbara Lipscomb says:
    Loved you something fierce little sis....sail on in peace.

  • October 13, 2019
    Dorcas & Jimmy Oakley says:
    chris our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time

  • October 13, 2019
    Susan & Hugh Credle says:
    Chris, Spencer & Pake family...I always looked forward to seeing Lucy at Thanksgiving, she was a special generous lady & when I commented on her Mayo biscuits, she insisted on giving me her recipe...they were so wonderful! Sincere thoughts & prayers to all of you. Heaven has a new beautiful angel.

  • October 13, 2019
    Richard Bower says:
    Chris and family, I am so sorry to learn about Lucy Ann's passing away. She will be remembered for her keen wit, her ability to make others laugh and her kindness. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  • October 13, 2019
    Terry Chitwood says:
    Chris and family,I'm so sorry to hear of Lucy's passing. From BHS days to working with you in radio, we had a great time!
    Our prayers are with you! I'd love to reconnect down the road if you have time. My email is terry@belleaire.org

  • October 11, 2019
    Lu Russell says:
    The Russell Family Beaufort NC (Russell's Creek) Lu, Johnnie, Abbey, Emry and Finn..... Prayers and God Bless you all !

  • October 12, 2019
    Yvonne Modlin says:
    Oh my gosh, I loved Lucy Pake! She could make me laugh out loud with her wit. It has been many years since my former husband, Billy O'Neal, our children, Kelly & Stuart & the Pake children sat around the dinner table. It was always fun. I remember thinking how did they have all that energy? Nothing but fond memories. Yvonne

  • October 12, 2019
    wills clark says:
    Hey Lucy Ann, been a while since we all played on Ridgewood Road, I will miss you dearly and all the fun we all had growing up at Campbell Court, Pocahontas, and BHS Wills Clark

  • October 12, 2019
    Tommy and Marilyn Hale says:
    Scott, Emily, and the rest of the family. We are so sorry to learn about Mrs. Pake. May God bless and comfort all of you as only He can is our prayer.

  • October 12, 2019
    Pay and Dickey Cobb says:
    Chris, please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. So so sorry to hear of Lucy's death. She always made us laugh and we have so many fond memories to cherish. Love to all.

  • October 12, 2019
    Keith Mason says:
    Spencer, Scott and family, Doogie and I are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Keith & Doogie Mason

  • October 12, 2019
    Barbara Davis says:
    So sorry to hear about Lucy. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

  • October 12, 2019
    Judy Cheshire says:
    Chris and family,
    I'm so very sorry for your loss. I will hold you deep in my heart and prayers as you let Lucy set sail.
    Much love to all,
    Judy Tunstall Cheshire

  • October 12, 2019
    crystal boyd says:
    I am so sorry! Thoughts and prayers to the whole family. Mrs. Pake was such a sweet person

  • October 12, 2019
    Barbara Davis says:
    keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Lucy's bright smile will be missed by all who knew her.

  • October 11, 2019
    Mary Godley says:
    Mary Godley and family are praying for your family. Sorry for your loss.